Anonymous said:


could you send some nice messages to tumblr user ironicdavestrider? she has been feeling suicidal; lately.

asks like this literally always confused me because anon

you just misgendered the user u want to help? faer pronouns are fae/they anon not she

so a message to all our anons, make sure u know the pronouns/lack thereof of the user u want to help because you arent a very good helper if youre misgendering someone



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Anonymous said:


(Urgent) I don't know what to do, I'm polyamorous with my boyfriend and girlfriend, we have a long distance relationship and we've had constant troubles with our parents approving any part of our relationship, yesterday my Dad dissaproved of my boyfriend and wanted me to stay away from him, I felt like running away to one of their houses, or hurt myself. I have severe anxiety issues and my boyfriend and girlfriend just want to help, but my Dad sees it as harm no matter how much I explain to him.

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Anonymous said:


Dave or roxy or kanaya please help My ex who threatened and joked about raping me and tried to a few times keeps texting me from numbers I do t know saying hey it's (name) how are you and I'm just really scared because Everttjine I block her she gets a new number it's fucking bad enough that she goes to my school I do t even know how she got my new cell number and she's called my house phone too I'm just scared being around her hearing her voice can give me a panic attack I don't know what to do

you need to report this 

this shit is straight up harassment and its getting in the way of your day-to-day life 

you can go to the police and let them know whats happening, this is what laws and restraining orders and shit are for 

and this is the kind of shit your school can help you deal with too because even if nothing is happening on campus its affecting your performance so its in their jurisdiction 



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Anonymous said:


Spacestepsister is getting hateful Anon(s) again! The most recent post says 'Scaring myself'. That's it. Oh, trigger warning for suicide and self harm.

heres the askbox



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mayorofcans:

http://motivationalfandoms.tumblr.com/

Here is my multi-fandom motivation blog. If you ask something please mention a character you want to respond.

Yes, I need mooooods.

Signal boost!


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Anonymous said:


[sorta Urgent] hey so theres this guy on deviantart who is constantly asking for RPs and partners for OCs and he was recently suspended for explicit sexual roleplays and harrasment and he just made a new account and started watching me again, and noted me asking for a RP even though I said no many times before, what can i do??

Report them to dA staff. If you roleplay on dAmn, set up a private room. Create the room, then only add your role playing buddies to the members list and remove the ability to join from guests. Eventually, dA staff will track the emails used by the accounts and ban those, and if it continues they can ban the IPs bound to the user I think. If not, continue getting the guy canned until he gives up.

Or if you feel like being the one to budge, make a roleplay account and keep it secret. Like, don’t have anyone watch it or it’s a dead give away to the really, really determined creeps out there. Eventually they will get bored. Explicit content is banned on dA. Or at least it’s banned in dAmn.

-Ninja Mod


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I should open a motivation blog similar to Motivationstuck..!?

mayorofcans:

I see they’re very busy, I am not. So, would you guys actually ask?

Go right ahead! The more the merrier!


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Let’s get some sweet anons over here.


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Hey, thank you for the supportive asks, but we need to be able to see the ones that require help! I’ll take responses to my anon response here at my personal, along with any really urgent problems you need help with.

Thanks guys.

-Lieutenant


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Anonymous said:


Haha, yeah, I've sent in several asks pleading for assistance as well since I literally have no one else to go to, but I guess now I'm done. I AM PRETTY FUCKING LAME FOR THINKING SOME PEOPLE TRYING TO BULLSHIT CHARACTER ANSWERS WOULD HELP, AREN'T I? Jfc, I have absolutely no place anywhere, so bye. HAVE A NICE FUCKING DAY.

I’m very sorry you feel that way. I’m answering this ask to tell all of you that I am so sorry I can’t answer every ask. I spent all day thinking of this one, and how the person that sent it must have felt when they wrote it, and how I, Ellie, could have done better to not make this person feel alone.

And what it came down to was the fact that if I’m taking care of myself first and foremost, nothing.

Warning: Ellie crying ahead.

Asks like these seem to hit me hardest. Some mods get angry, others discouraged. I tend to just feel useless. I probably saw that poor soul’s cry for help and passed it over because I worked an eight hour and just wanted to get the red numbers off my screen so I could just relax for the first time in a few days. If I had been less selfish, I could have helped them, shit at most topics though I am. And maybe the wouldn’t feel so lonely or hated or hopeless.

Which is how I feel when I read these. They remind me of my failure to do the one thing I think I was put on this planet for: Helping others. And they make me feel more than useless, they make me feel like a waste of the air I breathe and the carbon I’m made of.

I won’t point out how abusive this is, Poodle’s done that already. And I won’t point out the number of asks we get a day. But I will point out how truly deeply I feel the pain asks like these bring on. 

If your intent is to hurt so that you will not be the only one, you have succeeded. 

But also know that these people here bullshitting character answers do care. We care more than we really ought to at times. 

So anon, I’m sorry. I’ve failed utterly at doing my job. Forgive me, all of you.

-Ellie



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